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FAQ
Check out a few of our most frequently asked questions below. You're welcome to shoot us a message if you have any other questions.
About 🖤DaddyNik
I'm a pretty laid back guy with dadditude... friendly, affectionate, dominant, passionate... I created swap/MEAT because I wanted a safe place to explore sex and sexuality, have fun, meet guys, share experiences, and indulge my libido.
Evolution of my playspace
I first opened a single wooden gloryhole a few years prior to the pandemic and surprised myself with all the things I liked about it. Not only did I get to suck all this great dick, but I also connected with a lot of great guys.
Then our world was shaken up. As the pandemic wound down, I decided to try again - and this time rebuilt a different setup. Now there were two holes plus the anon sling and I could start saying YES to all the guys asking to come offer their holes too!
I also had a small dungeon room, but wanted more space for more toys and more buddies to share it with. I decided to go big or go home. I converted my 3 bedroom, 2 bath rental unit into 2 levels with 5 play areas... my own little bathhouse. And now I'm ready to open up and share with all of you too!
Frequently asked questions
What are the events you offer?
swap/MEAT offers 6 main event types. Here is a quick summary of each:
gloryhOle - group gloryhole events at swap/MEAT are 1-5 guys behind the gloryhole walls who will suck and bottom for the guys who visit. Guys visit who want to top or have their dick sucked. An element of anonymity is preserved between the two sides of the wall. swap/MEAT gloryhole events are free and open to non-members, usually also advertised on sniffies and social media. swap/MEAT gloryhole events are bb only.
gangbang - swap/MEAT gangbang events will involve one or a few designated bottoms being fucked by a group of designated tops. These events are generally face-to-face, though any of the bottom(s) or top(s) could wear a mask/hood for discretion/anonymity if they choose. Gangbangs might be small, 1 bottom and 3-5 tops, or larger, depending on the desire of organizers and popularity with guys signing up to attend as tops. Gangbangs may or may not allow condom use.
cumdumps - cumdump events are essentially a version of a gangbang or gloryhole with one designated bottom and many bb tops. The goal is usually to get as many loads as are available within a specified timeframe. Cumdumps are bb breeding only.
swap/MEAT - swap/MEAT orgy groups are guys meeting for sex. Sex can be 1:1 or group. Events are face-to-face, though anyone can wear a mask/hood if they like. Attendees are a mix of tops, bottoms, vers, and sides. swap/MEAT orgy groups limit the number of spots for bottoms to sign up based on how many tops have signed up - again this helps keep things active and fun for everyone. Some swap/MEAT orgy groups are open to all members. Some are more curated invite-only groups. swap/MEAT orgy groups allow latex-free condom use, but most folks prefer bb at these events.
mixer orgy - mixer orgy groups are open to all members and do not balance top/btm ratio. The basic ticket price is less than a standard event ticket. Members may select to instead purchase a VIP ticket which includes a social area, snacks, & drinks. These events are a great way for all members to have access to the venue and also provide an opportunity to socialize with other members.
MEAT/market - a meat-market or horse-market event is a variation on a theme. The overall format is that bottoms (Mares) are hooded to remain anonymous and made available to tops (Stallions) for breeding. Volunteers (stable hands) help keep an eye on the mares and guide them to new spots, restrooms, or for breaks. Tops and bottoms may not switch roles. MEAT/market groups allow latex-free condom use, but most folks prefer bb at these events.
Why do I need to join swap/MEAT?
swap/MEAT is a group that organizes invite-only gatherings for men who have sex with men. By joining, you know that other guys who you meet at a swap/MEAT events have also committed to the same set of standards for respect, consent, and hygiene. While this website provides a platform to recruit new members, the communications channel for groups and events is managed through Discord. Once your application is reviewed and approved, you'll be onboarded into the Discord server and gain access to the event calendar and both free and ticketed events as well as communications and social channels, allowing you to connect with other members.
What do I get with swap/MEAT membership? What does membership cost?
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What kind of guys do you allow to join?
We're pretty open to most ages, body types, sexual preferences, and cock sizes. Cis and trans men are definitely welcome. Trans-fem folks are welcome too - inclusive sex positive spaces are hard to find and we want to be welcoming and inclusive in our approach to membership. We don't ask or care about your sexual orientation - gay, straight, pan, non-conforming, doesn't matter; we're a group of men who like to have sex with men.
Due to physical limitations of the space, we have a few limits in regards to physical attributes.
Cock sizes under the 4" range are not a good match for the gloryhole, there's simply not the same access through a wooden wall as face to face and it is awkward for us on both sides of the wall. If you're on the bottom end of the spectrum, cock size is not a factor.
Regardless of overall bodytype, if you have a big belly it is hard to literally belly-up to the hole because you need your hips flush against the hole in the wall.
Slim guys and twinks are all welcome (and delicious), no need to be concerned about not being muscular.
Dad-bods and thicc guys are sexy and welcome too.
Our furniture is not built to accommodate a bunch of guys on the big bear side of things, so if you're a really big bear, unfortunately at this time it's not a good match for us. If you're unsure, please reach out through email or the application form, I'll have you send a few photos, and we can discuss our options.
What if I want to be picky about guys I have sex with?
We have members who enjoy events open to all members and all ages/body types. Many events are open to all members. Some of these events have themes, like "daddies and boys" and can draw a more specific crowd but remain open to all members.
We also have members who prefer to be selective about their partners. We host many events that are only open to select members. These might be "college boys and jocks" or "muscle only" or "hung 4 hung" events. Members must be verified - via video or in-person - in order to gain access to these event invitations. You can have a reasonable expectation that everyone who attends fits the group parameters pretty well. You're also welcome to join an all-members event and interact with only the guys you're interested in.
You always have the right to deny consent at any time for any reason at any event.
What are your existing members like?
We have a huge variety of members and are overall pretty balanced among groups. A bunch of college guys in the 18-26 range. The majority of guys are in their late 20's through 40's and a few up through 50's or so. We have slim twinky guys, average bods, dad bods, fit guys, jacked muscle guys, and some guys on the thic/bear side of the spectrum too. Hairy guys, shaved or smooth guys, and everything in between.
There's a big mix of cock sizes and while most guys are plus or minus 6ish, we have a bunch of really meaty cocks in the 8-9"+ range.
The majority of members have some interests on the kinky side of things (group sex and gloryholes are a kink, after all) but there are also a good chunk of guys on both end of the spectrum, totally vanilla and kinky AF.
I don't screen for orientation, but we definitely have guys all across the spectrum from totally gay to totally straight; your label or lack thereof doesn't exclude you here.
Is swap/MEAT open to other genders or is this exclusive to guys?
At the moment, this is an MSM space (men who have sex with men). This also includes trans folks. I'm not trying to police gender identities, but for now I'm sticking with an MSM focus. There are already several MWM/WMW/swinger sex groups active in the area.
The venue will be available for private rentals soon. You can invite guests of your choice during your reservation, including all genders. Look for updates on hourly, overnight bnb, and private event reservations soon.
How do I purchase tickets to your events?
Tickets are available for purchase to members only. Once you've joined our discord server you'll have access to event and ticketing channels. We link to a ticketing site so you know your purchase is safe and secure. You also need to provide your Member ID at checkout. We're looking into alternative ticketing platforms that may be more straightforward and integrate directly with membership tracking, etc. Stay tuned.
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